"People play and make organisations to have some fun on the server and I'm sorry that you can't see the funny side in some orgs. It wouldn't be fair or any fun to force every org to run like an army."
switch motherboard to an asus rog maximus xii apex, switch ram for g skill trident z royal 4000mhz cl15, get a different cooler. And like Fredy said buy the H500M (mesh version)
https://streamable.com/7cvfee
nearly the same situation, I had a katana and got sprayed down even after my tires has been popped (same TFU as in Jenga's video)
i9-9900ks overclocked
on a more serious note, don't go ryzen, don't buy the 9900ks (overpriced scam) and if you play competitive games a 3600mhz + 10th gen intel should be the best setup fps wise