Unfortunately since you alted recently you will have to wait a month or two, you also tried to join back at the end of June so you did know you were banned.
If you can get your boyfriend to appeal and apologise for his ban + other alt attempts, I’m sure it’ll most likely be accepted, then this can also be accepted.
You have the same birthday on forums? Do you live together? Do you use the same computer? I see your boyfriend also tried to connect on the 8th of July, does he really have no ‘desire’ to play perp again?