Hate is a strong word, I'd say strongly disliked.
You're posting useless replies/comments which contribute nothing to thread(s), being whiny instead of using the criticism you get to improve, instead you ignore it and get annoyed, you made this thread instead of asking asking in shoutbox/making a convo(PM)/etc., not listening to people you're in an argument with and alike.
Maybe try to don't take all the banter serious too? That's a huge thing. PH is in my opinion a community with alot of banter in it meaning that you'll have to "manage" banter well in order to not stand out. I don't mind people standing out, but It's possible to stand out in a bad way.