Apology @everyone Important

[ati ツ]

Hello dear Perpheads Community, you probably know me as Liam Garcia who is very toxic to other people and has said bad things to people who are not clear at all and who also regret very much what I want to achieve here is that I simply address everyone I would like to apologize to the Perp-Community I already apologized to the staff members to which I was disrespectful and most of them accepted it and now I would like to apologize to all of you, apologize for saying, for example, "I hope your family dies cancer "I noticed that some of the people whose families really died from it and I am very sorry I was a 14 year old naughty child and I did not follow the rules and the instructions of the staff members and I am very, very sorry and I'm sorry that I insulted you all so and was disrespectful I know that you are all probably older than me and I respect you But should and that we should simply role play fairly with each other without being insulted, I'm really sorry for all my actions, I would have liked to personally apologize to the people I insulted so unfortunately I don't know all the forum names, maybe you can see yes this post and can forgive me I am sincerely sorry again and I hope you give me another chance and that you get to know me from another side, I would be happy if I could report and write something under this post, dear greetings.

Liam Garcia | zeus.

 

[Murtsley]

Officer Winner big ol' winner

Edit:

Apparently said some bad shit: I take it back

 

[lamby]

You've been doing nothing but apologizing when people asked you to calm down and just try to find yourself a new community. The stuff you did is absolutely despicable and seeing you spam sorry sorry sorry is getting annoying.

I find you to be desperate rather than sorry.

 

[flugs]

Someone once said to me "Forgiveness is not given, it is earned" when I was in a position very similar to yours. Kind of contradicts the word itself but whatever, the message is there. It's nice that you're apologising for your actions again but the only way that you're going to get people that you've affected to properly forgive you is by actually proving that you've both changed and are sorry. That could be hard seeing as you're banned, but this doesn't mean you can't interact on forums, provide input on things, etc, and that would be a step in the right direction. Engagement. Doing good things on the forums probably won't make your biggest enemy like you, but at least they'll see that you're trying. Trying really is the keyword in your case; you need to actually try, not just make some friendly apologies.

Something you also need to realise is that these things take time. People appreciate patience. If you wrong someone then apologise a week later, they probably won't forgive you. However, if you wait 3 months and apologise again, they'll be more inclined to forgive you because you have shown that you actually care about what you did and have waited time to show that. You've said some pretty nasty things and genuinely affected people in this community, no post is going to completely undo that and there's no fast route to becoming integrated again. Only over a significant amount of time will you be able to actually earn forgiveness from these people. You have actually made a few directed apologies (at least you made one to me), which says to me that you're trying to improve, just try and keep that up.

Don't take this advice lightly. Anyone can write a post saying that they're sorry, whether they're sorry or not. You now need to actually prove it.

Good luck at gaining redemption.

 

[Kenty]

Actions speak louder than words.

Everyone’s been seeing you say ‘Sorry’ but have you actually shown you’re sorry, have you taken the time to use forums for help and suggestions that show you attempt to make a change and impact.

I'm sorry everyone!

Appealing for: Ban Appeal type: Apology Which staff member banned you: blackdown How long were you banned for: Permament Your Steam Name: zeus. Your In-game Name: Liam Garcia Your Steam ID: STEAM_0:1:106547501 Why were you banned: Toxic Behavior Why should this appeal be considered...

perpheads.com

You aren’t sorry, you’ve just decided to say sorry because it worked for you last time.

 

[John Daymon]

What the fuck do you expect him to do though? Play the server?

 

[Clarky]

The tags man lol “second chance”, not even close to being a second chance but you do you

 

[ati ツ]

I'm just really sorry, but if you simply think that I'm not serious, I don't really care if you don't believe me

 

[Marquees \]

Hello dear Perpheads Community, you probably know me as Liam Garcia who is very toxic to other people and has said bad things to people who are not clear at all and who also regret very much what I want to achieve here is that I simply address everyone I would like to apologize to the Perp-Community I already apologized to the staff members to which I was disrespectful and most of them accepted it and now I would like to apologize to all of you, apologize for saying, for example, "I hope your family dies cancer "I noticed that some of the people whose families really died from it and I am very sorry I was a 14 year old naughty child and I did not follow the rules and the instructions of the staff members and I am very, very sorry and I'm sorry that I insulted you all so and was disrespectful I know that you are all probably older than me and I respect you But should and that we should simply role play fairly with each other without being insulted, I'm really sorry for all my actions, I would have liked to personally apologize to the people I insulted so unfortunately I don't know all the forum names, maybe you can see yes this post and can forgive me I am sincerely sorry again and I hope you give me another chance and that you get to know me from another side, I would be happy if I could report and write something under this post, dear greetings.

Liam Garcia | zeus.

i forgive ik you were not thinking your a good guy on the inside

 

[Henry]

The way you acted towards members of the community was despicable and disgusting. However, I was just as bad towards you and I apologise, It's good to see you're willing to change your ways and attitude and I hope you do.

 

[ati ツ]

Ty

 

[lamby]

@Marquees \ There's a difference between a nice person and someone that's downright toxic and shows nothing else but that type of behavior.

 

[ati ツ]

Yes what should I do if he doesn't believe me then I can't help it, it's his decision, I can't change anything

 

[Clarky]

@zeus. by putting in effort to sorting your own reputation and not saying you don’t care hello???

 

[flugs]

@zeus. you really don’t help yourself sometimes..

edit: maybe you don’t care what he thinks, but it’s normal etiquette to just leave that sort of thing out, especially when you’re trying to show improvement. Maybe his comment is harsh, but all I see it as is a challenge to your “reform” and the reaction you gave is just proving him right.

 

[Daft Punk]

Im sorry chief, but you were given multiple chances to change your toxic behaviour, and look where it ended up, a second perma ban.

 

[ati ツ]

@flugs But I am trying to apologize to the people I have hurt and he gives me such an answer

 

[ati ツ]

It is a 1 year ban sir

 

[flugs]

@zeus. but you surely cannot expect everyone to just keel over and accept your apology immediately, especially given that this isn’t your first time saying sorry.

 

[Ashur]

I was banned for 1,5 years for cheating, sometimes all it takes to change is time, maybe You should wait out ur ban.