Finley, I can assure you that the notion you seem to have of most people in the server hating you is completely wrong.
In fact, tell me the name of a person on this server that legitimately hates you and I'll wire you 10k in-game.
I personally think that you may either be taking some in-character stuff too personally (remember that when using voice chat, we are all just roleplaying and don't necessarily mean anything by what we say) or that you may want to go and join an organisation so you have a group of people to play with.
A lot of players on this server are generally nice people and would probably like to play with you, but it's going to take some initiative from your side to get into e.g. an organisation or base with people.
On the off-chance that somebody does legitimately hate you and is turning your time on the server into a bad experience, you can at all times press F6 to contact a member of staff and we will gladly assist you!