this won't help you with your problem with the server, but at least it will help you to understand how much are you spamming:
You posted 8 messages in less then 1 hour. Try using the comment function to reply what users suggest you to do, by clicking on "0 Comment(s)", also when you create a new post here instead of making a new one before anyone has replied edit it clicking the button "Edit" on your post.
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you are not the only one who has this problem, if you searched the previous posts you would have seen Crashes when joining just below your thread, check it, it will probably help you
Use high graphics, you need windows 7 64 bit, 4 gb ram, decent cpu / gpu. Main reason your game crash is using windows 7 32 bit or tons of shitty addons like - Dark rp servur contunt with all fuckin shitty stuff. nuff said