This ain't no topic for beef, i genuinely want to see these things improved and therefor i won't be just pointing out the shit i don't like but also a suggestion on how to fix it. Feel free to comment if you have a different way to fix certain points!
1) Transparency
It bothers me that there is no transparency between staff and players. When there is a dispute or report the staff has to carry the same face and information is always withheld. When in doubt you get screamed at 'staff discretion' and that ends the conversation. Why can't all information be open to the public?
Every staff member is a human being and therefor should be able to publicly express their opinion REGARDLESS OF WHAT OTHER STAFF MAY THINK. Staff is not the borg.
2) Staff discretion
Ohhhh boy do i hate this fucking word, its used in every way to make a player shut his face and is NOT HELPING. Staff discretion is suppose to give a staff member the freedom of punishment or course of action but its now more widely used to give warnings for rules that don't exist or give players punishments much higher then they should be.
What ticks me off even more that also involves staff discretion is warnings or bans given regardless of player input. A example of this is @Archibald, he did a sit for me where i reported a few cops for just letting me die when i screamed 10 times for a bandage. The sit unfortunately turned into a wrong turn and it caused a mugger to be pulled into the sit (KEEP IN MIND I NEVER REPORTED HIM) and he was warned for mugging me when i repeatedly over 4 times asked him NOT to be warned. This is absolute aids and does not help the community at all.
When i see a sweater run across the intersection i call him the n-word then if I'm on route i prob tell him not to run across the intersection like that. When i see some players break 3.4 by trying to knive me as a cop i laugh my ass off and have a great time, i asked @ShadowJoey to take them into a sit where i specifically asked within the report to not warn them. I ONLY wanted to explain them that this is not acceptable within the community even though it was hilarious roleplay. They were absolutely awesome guys, we had a chat and they learned and were put back down.
Now you can see by the two example above that there are 2 ways to enforce these rules, below picture is provided for entertainment purposes. I'm not calling any staff nazi's thank you.
What would you rather have? Personally i am in favor of the arma-style warning way where people HAVE to talk to each other first to resolve the issues. This way significantly decrease the amount of player report and beef in this community.
3) Mod quota?
This reminded me when i saw @Rogue Car Tyres demotion. Surely we don't know all the details on why he was demoted (*cough* point 1) but is this really a thing? Do mods have to reach a certain amount of warnings or ban to stick as a staff member? Because that's really despicable in my opinion.
4) Pointless beef AR's/Hate reports
This has been brought up many times before so I'm not going to dwell on it to long. There are a few times i was involved in these reports or AR's where a person wasn't even involved at all but made an AR. Or for example the first ban i got going now, @Fasool made a funny gif of us fucking around in the bazaar and while everybody had a great time a random person who apparently can stay anonymous made a report on teamspeak and i got bannad over the holidays. I'm sure a lot of people can relate with this.
Keep in mind I'm not saying all reports are bad, if for example your RP was ruined by someone yelling on the top of their lungs to police while under gunpoint or gagged its perfectly acceptable to take that person to the roof and have a chat about it
Brings us back to how to solve this, again the arma-style talk-it-out-first would be a massive improvement over what we have now. Also i feel that if a player has ZERO involvement in a situation a report should be automatically denied, the same way as you can't comment on reports.
5) Final thoughts
I put a lot of time, effort, and money into this community and i hate to see it go to shit lately. We need to change as a community and not let it run down the river the way its going at the moment.
While i can't play right now duo to my ban i wish you all the best and happy holidays, thanks for reading my thoughts!
1) Transparency
It bothers me that there is no transparency between staff and players. When there is a dispute or report the staff has to carry the same face and information is always withheld. When in doubt you get screamed at 'staff discretion' and that ends the conversation. Why can't all information be open to the public?

Every staff member is a human being and therefor should be able to publicly express their opinion REGARDLESS OF WHAT OTHER STAFF MAY THINK. Staff is not the borg.
2) Staff discretion
Ohhhh boy do i hate this fucking word, its used in every way to make a player shut his face and is NOT HELPING. Staff discretion is suppose to give a staff member the freedom of punishment or course of action but its now more widely used to give warnings for rules that don't exist or give players punishments much higher then they should be.
What ticks me off even more that also involves staff discretion is warnings or bans given regardless of player input. A example of this is @Archibald, he did a sit for me where i reported a few cops for just letting me die when i screamed 10 times for a bandage. The sit unfortunately turned into a wrong turn and it caused a mugger to be pulled into the sit (KEEP IN MIND I NEVER REPORTED HIM) and he was warned for mugging me when i repeatedly over 4 times asked him NOT to be warned. This is absolute aids and does not help the community at all.
When i see a sweater run across the intersection i call him the n-word then if I'm on route i prob tell him not to run across the intersection like that. When i see some players break 3.4 by trying to knive me as a cop i laugh my ass off and have a great time, i asked @ShadowJoey to take them into a sit where i specifically asked within the report to not warn them. I ONLY wanted to explain them that this is not acceptable within the community even though it was hilarious roleplay. They were absolutely awesome guys, we had a chat and they learned and were put back down.
Now you can see by the two example above that there are 2 ways to enforce these rules, below picture is provided for entertainment purposes. I'm not calling any staff nazi's thank you.

What would you rather have? Personally i am in favor of the arma-style warning way where people HAVE to talk to each other first to resolve the issues. This way significantly decrease the amount of player report and beef in this community.
3) Mod quota?
This reminded me when i saw @Rogue Car Tyres demotion. Surely we don't know all the details on why he was demoted (*cough* point 1) but is this really a thing? Do mods have to reach a certain amount of warnings or ban to stick as a staff member? Because that's really despicable in my opinion.

4) Pointless beef AR's/Hate reports
This has been brought up many times before so I'm not going to dwell on it to long. There are a few times i was involved in these reports or AR's where a person wasn't even involved at all but made an AR. Or for example the first ban i got going now, @Fasool made a funny gif of us fucking around in the bazaar and while everybody had a great time a random person who apparently can stay anonymous made a report on teamspeak and i got bannad over the holidays. I'm sure a lot of people can relate with this.

Keep in mind I'm not saying all reports are bad, if for example your RP was ruined by someone yelling on the top of their lungs to police while under gunpoint or gagged its perfectly acceptable to take that person to the roof and have a chat about it
Brings us back to how to solve this, again the arma-style talk-it-out-first would be a massive improvement over what we have now. Also i feel that if a player has ZERO involvement in a situation a report should be automatically denied, the same way as you can't comment on reports.
5) Final thoughts
I put a lot of time, effort, and money into this community and i hate to see it go to shit lately. We need to change as a community and not let it run down the river the way its going at the moment.
While i can't play right now duo to my ban i wish you all the best and happy holidays, thanks for reading my thoughts!