Ban any offensive slur being used excessively without any role play context. Someone hard R'ing every now and again in character isn't necessarily unrealistic, nor is it really offending anyone.
Why hold the N word to such high esteem too when there are a plethora of other slurs being regularly used in the server which carry a history of causing such a negative impact to certain communities, resulting in profiling, and in extreme cases, segregation, containment, and in certain cases, Literal genocide?
Let me go over the ACTUAL definition of most pejorative slurs people use in game without them actually realising that they are offensive:
- Dumb: Used in 19th century Britain to profile Mute people. (People who cannot speak). This term was not seen as pejorative but became an insult after awhile. Typically it has a "New meaning" Which means its no longer really offensive par se.
- Autist: Self explanatory. As an autistic myself however this has become a term of endearment at times similar to the N word without the Hard R is to black people.
- Retard: Means "Delayed". Derogatory term used to profile people with disabilities. This one was an "Official" word up until the late 2000's. When travelling to the US, I was profiled as "Retarded" on official government documentation due to me having ASD And ADHD. Ngl, I found it fucking funny, but my family were disgusted and appalled.
- Moron: another word used to describe people with mental disabilities or illnesses, this one however beginning its life as a pejorative term.
- Spastic: Same as all above.
Personally, I do not get offended when referred to as an "Autist" or "Retard" any more than I would if someone called me a F****t.
I am yet to hear of anyone being particularly offended by people using the N word in a roleplay context except in instances where people were just sat there saying it over and over again (which I think shouldn't be allowed) and at that point it wasn't people taking offence to it, but more so, they were just sick of hearing it.
More people on PERP right now are using derogatory terms towards homosexuals, transexuals, LGBT People in general, and disabled people, than they are using the N word. Its gotten to a point where I've heard a plethora of users, particularly ones who should know better, actively describing and calling proven disabled users in this manner. And if we're gonna just ban the use of a single racial slur,
Why not do the same for all slurs?
would follow under the rule 1.1.
Surely it'd be 1.2?
Tl;Dr:
We can't really just ban the use of 1 slur in game, if anything, any and all serious derogatory terms with histories of being used to profile and oppress people Racially, LGBTQ people, and disabled people should be banned alongside the hard R.